I am so confused!

SO, I get a phone call today from the clinic. I had called and left a message earlier because I still had not heard from anyone. When I answered she asked "how can I help you"? REALLY???? So she informs me that the head nurse is out for the rest of the week. OMG!!! Guess thats why she never called back. So I had to explain all the conversations I had had with Cpt Johnson and the nurse, and I further the conversation explaining my frustration of why they decided NOT to do my surgery. I went into to detail that I was sure I qualified, and just wasn't quite getting it. She put me on hold to go "check". She comes back to the phone after a pretty lengthy hold and tells me my chart is in the "schedule for surgery" pile. My response is, "that's not right". After all, they just told me on Friday I wasn't having surgery. WHAT THE CRAP??? Now I am even more confused and even frustrated. I hate to get my hopes up, just to be let down again. But she was certain that I would in fact be having surgery. UGH! Now I just have to sit and wait for someone to call me with confirmation. She seemed to know what she is talking about, but I dont want to feel confident until I get the call with a surgery date. I don't want to keep bugging them, but I really want to know...FOR SURE!
Cpt Johnson will not be back till next week, so maybe I will get a call from him them. Of course I will keep updating as I find out for myself.